The Nine Keys

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Marianna, Individualist (4) married in a 28-year relationship with Tony, Peacemaker (9)
“If I hadn’t learned the Enneagram, we’d still be where we were before, unless it got worse and we broke up, which was a distinct possibility. I’m so grateful for my husband, our relationship, our life together and that we have these tools to help us navigate our differences.”


The Nine Keys is the essential encyclopedia of the Enneagram in relationships. This book contains Enneagram relationship theory for all 45 type combinations as well as personal testimonials for all 81 relationship perspectives.  Drawing on over 1,500 years of relationship experience from over 100 couples from around the world, the descriptions and testimonials are instructive, uplifting, cautionary, and sometimes scary and humorous – all real, all good.


Each Enneagram type has its own chapter including an overview of the type, the type in relationship and relationship “keys.”The book also features Kundalini Yoga sets and meditations mapped for each Enneagram type.  All Kundalini Yoga sets and meditations are appropriate for all levels and include detailed instructions.

The Nine Keys
offers easy to implement strategies to understand and improve your relationships. Based on the psychological growth tools of the Enneagram System of Psychology and the somatic tools of Kundalini Yoga, this book features true  testimonials from people sharing their insights into what works and what doesn’t work in their relationship dynamic. It offers practical solutions and helps you understand your relationship and others in your life.