The Nine Keys

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Marianna, Individualist (4) married in a 28-year relationship with Tony, Peacemaker (9)
“If I hadn’t learned the Enneagram, we’d still be where we were before, unless it got worse and we broke up, which was a distinct possibility. I’m so grateful for my husband, our relationship, our life together and that we have these tools to help us navigate our differences.”


The Nine Keys is the essential encyclopedia of the Enneagram in relationships. This book contains Enneagram relationship theory for all 45 type combinations as well as personal testimonials for all 81 relationship perspectives.  Drawing on over 1,500 years of relationship experience from over 100 couples from around the world, the descriptions and testimonials are instructive, uplifting, cautionary, and sometimes scary and humorous – all real, all good.


Each Enneagram type has its own chapter including an overview of the type, the type in relationship and relationship “keys.”The book also features Kundalini Yoga sets and meditations mapped for each Enneagram type.  All Kundalini Yoga sets and meditations are appropriate for all levels and include detailed instructions.

The Nine Keys
offers easy to implement strategies to understand and improve your relationships. Based on the psychological growth tools of the Enneagram System of Psychology and the somatic tools of Kundalini Yoga, this book features true  testimonials from people sharing their insights into what works and what doesn’t work in their relationship dynamic. It offers practical solutions and helps you understand your relationship and others in your life.


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What readers are saying:
Elli Zisis, Amazon review: “The Nine Keys was able to clearly convey and assist in making sense of what happened in the prior relationship that I believed would last. It was really important to me to find this clarity and this book came at the perfect time. In addition, reading all of the testimonials of all the different combinations gave me insight to not only the current relationship but ALL relationships including family and friends which has been an eye-opener! (I even find myself sharing parts of the book to my friends and siblings on the phone!) The Kundalini Kriyas are clear, easy to do, and helpful in balancing the energy I need as a 7! Thanks so much for a unique reading combination.”


Nehal Petal, Amazon review: As an Enneagram Helper (2) married to a Leader (8), I found this book extremely helpful. Reading our 2:8 chapter together was one of the best exercises in finding a non personal way to talk about our differences. It stopped being about “you” doing that to “me” and became a discussion of how our habit of attention influences our behavior. Finally… I feel like we have a way to navigate our differences that doesn’t end in a fight or with tears. I also found all the personal stories fascinating. It was like a way to see into the relationship with 81 different perspectives. The book is very accessible and easy to read. I look forward to trying the yoga sets. Highly recommended!”


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