• Enneagram,  Kundalini Yoga

    The Tuna Incident…(excerpt from The Nine Keys)

     The following is an excerpt from “The Nine Keys” Charlotte, Leader (8) married in a 20-year relationship with Oliver, Helper (2) “We were 26 years old when we met and each going through difficult times. His kindness, softness and tenderness, despite my constant resistance, was what won my heart… He knew somehow that my hard shell was just that, a shell. He saw through it whereas other people didn’t. Or others saw it, decided they could not break it and walked away. He was persistent. And that won me over. Somehow I felt he passed the test. My husband is stable, reliable, self-sacrificing and wants the best for his family.…

  • Enneagram,  Kundalini Yoga

    And the Winner Is… (excerpt from The Nine Keys)

      This is an excerpt from “The Nine Keys” Dorothy, Helper (2) married in a 9-year relationship with Alex, Achiever (3)   “My husband is responsible, focused, adaptable, diverse in his interests and a wonderful mix of stable and adventurous. Alex has a huge heart and is a truly kind and caring person. He is a great partner; very conscious of his actions and decisions, and how they impact me, us and our flow.  He can be very sensitive, expressive, affirming, and affectionate.  He is often a great listener and when fully focused, shares heartfelt responses.  He has high self-esteem and a strong drive to be the best in all…

  • Enneagram,  minerva

    The Enneagram in Relationships–What Types Go Well Together

      Type Compatibility: The Theory   After people learn their own Enneagram type, the next question I invariably get asked is “what types go well together?” or “who should I be with?” Everyone wants to know. The answer is that all type combinations can be happy together if both partners have high levels of self awareness. And the reverse is true. All combinations may struggle if both people have a lack of self awareness. Type compatibility is more about similar levels self awareness than it is about personality type. The basic guidelines are: Two highly self aware people have the best chance of success. Two highly unaware people may be…